Dating Three Guys to Find the One

The concern about weighting your options instead of driving yourself nuts and obsessing over just one man. Not investing all your time, energy, and emotions into any single man, no matter how much he's convinced you he's Mr. Fabulous can have its benefits. You simply don't have time to fret about how much time he's fretting about you if you're simultaneously dating Mr. Semi-Fabulous and Mr. Just-Okay, too. If you are looking for a serious relationship, then you should absolutely be dating more than one man at once... you need quantity to find quality.

  Do not sleep with more than one man at once because of added drama and STDs,so until you find someone that becomes particularly sparkly and special to you then you can.Try a little man-juggling.
You can date as many people as you handle.But some people date around because they are needy which is not good for both you and your partner.Instead of worrying about how many dates you have and it being a balancing act,date from feelings. Know what you want ahead of time so you aren't getting too invested. Do a reality check. You should have a personal list.Make a list of what you want the guy to be, not how you (personally) want to feel.