Surprising Signs You Should Break Up

We all know the obvious signs to tell if a man isn't the one for you: he cheated, he can't keep a job, he's abusive emotionally or physically the list goes on. But sometimes, subtle red flags are waving in our faces and we don't realize they mean it's time to dump an undercover loserSo let us open your eyes;

All of his friends are single.If all of his friends are bachelors, he probably thinks he still is too. Men who are ready to be committed will stop acting like they're single (i.e., hanging out at strip clubs with all his single amigos) and keep around the dudes who are in serious relationships like him. In fact, studies show that couples who are friends with other couples have stronger romances.

 He trash talks his ex.If a man speaks poorly about his ex-wife, ex-girlfriend, or his mother, run, . When a guy does nothing but bring up how crazy his ex was, you're next in line, but you just don't know it yet. And common sense should just tell you that no good person is going to talk down about their own mother it means that he obviously doesn't respect the women in his life, and you don't want to go down that road.

He's been working toward the same goal for way too long.We're all for a man going back to school or focusing more on his education than anything, but if he's been an undergrad for nearly 10 years, it's time to give him the boot. Not only does he find it difficult to commit to something, he's probably too dependent on others.If he's living with his family, not working, a perpetual student without ever getting a degree, and doesn't have a life plan that includes a career, chances are he's looking for a mother figure in you, someone to take care of him not someone to be his girlfriend or wife.

He's rude to waiters and waitresses.If you're out on a date and he's constantly rude or condescending to the employees, this is a sign that he not only doesn't know how to act in public but he's on some sort of power trip. The same way he trash talks his mother and ex, if he knows that he's "above" someone and isn't afraid to show it, it can mean you're next in line for this type of behavior.