How To Make It In A Long Distance Relationship

Life cannot always be a rosy ride and similar is the case with relationships. Life and relationships are such similar things, to be happy you need to put in your heart and soul into it, give it your best shot and leave the rest to fate!

First things first, you can survive a long distance relationship only and only if you are the kind of person who is ready for real commitment or at least ready to work towards a long-term relationship. Be ready to juggle your routine chores, workload, your friends and family and your loved one all at the same time! If you thought mood swings could create problems in normal relationships, the distance will make it even worse. There will be times when you are down right frustrated and dejected and your better half has the most cheerful story to share with you. You can’t pretend to be interested (of course you’ll be caught!) and hanging up the phone will be sacrilege! That is the thing, there is no right or wrong! long distance relationships bring out the best or at times the worst in you – it is all about your perspective.
 Although it is a common notion that people who have a long distance relationship lead two separate lives, it is quite possible for two people to stay in touch everyday, plan their schedule together, and share their lives in spite of the distance that separates them.
There is only one thing that makes the relationship work  The will to make it work! Long distance relationships and marriages work on the same principle, you need to master the art of adjustment and compromise. You miss each other, you struggle to catch up with each others’ lives, you get hurt at times, yearn to be together, but the question is, how long can you survive it? From what I have learned I can assure you that if you think of it as a battle, you’ll never survive it, accept it as a bond that holds you together and it will strengthen with time.