How to Finally Get Over Him

Break ups suck.But lots of times, they’re for the best. So lets help you get over him and remind you of your inner self,here is how;

De-Clutter Your Life.Toss his toiletries, send clothes he left at your place back to him, and put any gifts or cards he gave you in a box in your closet (decide later whether you want to keep them; if you purge everything right away, you might regret it). Beyond ditching his stuff, shed clutter in general. Clearing out your place helps clear out your mind and make room for the new.

Eat More Salad.The iconic post-breakup image is a girl in her sweats with a remote in one hand and a bowel of pop corn in the other. But even though you might feel like scarfing a dish of grilled chicken and a bar chocolate you’ll move on faster by eating healthy and amping up your workouts . It’s cheesy but true: When you feel terrific about how you look on the outside, you’ll feel better on the inside too. 

 Fake It ‘Til You Make It.Trust us on this one. Even though you’re not over him, act like you are…and it will eventually manifest. Force yourself to go to parties and flirt with other guys, and one day you’ll realize you’re not just pretending to have fun or playing along with the dude hitting on you you’re legitimately into it.

   Make Yourself Busy.One of the hardest things about breaking up is no longer having a permanent buddy to hang out with every night of the week. To fill the void, make more plans—organize a weekly happy hour with coworkers and brunch dates with your girls.   

Let Yourself Cry.Leave enough room in your schedule for the occasional night when you stay home and process the loss of your relationship. Give yourself an hour or two to let it all out, because expressing your grief will help you heal.

Have a random make out.Spending a night flirting and dancing with a hottie at a bar can be an amazing confidence booster. When it comes to actually going out with someone new, just make sure you feel ready and are able to have fun with it meaning, you won’t take it personally if things don’t progress.