Bridesmaids: When to Save, When to Splurge

So you’ve been chosen as your gal pal to be one of her bridesmaids. Congrats! We’re sure you’re thrilled, as you should be. But guess who’s less than thrilled? Your wallet. The truth is, after the dress, accessories, travel expenses, gifts…being in someone’s wedding is downright pricey.
 So what’s a gal to do?
First things first, speak with your bride or the Maid of Honor about any budget concerns immediately after accepting the position. This will ensure that everyone is on the same page with what they can afford, and will lessen the chance of uncomfortable money conversations down the road.
Next, ask for a few priorities. Chances are, there are areas where you’ll need to spend and others where you can skimp without it making a difference. Is it most important to her that you have the right dress? Is she less concerned about accessories.
Read on for the low down on where you can save, and where you should spend…

The Dress. If your bride is like most, she is going to go to great lengths to pick out the perfect dress for you and the other maids.  Early selection works in your favor for two reasons: 1) it gives you more time to save, and 2) you can choose early and give a little lead time for any discounts or deals to pop up.
Shoes. While the dress is the focal point of a bridesmaid’s attire, the shoes are likely less important, and in the event that your bride has chosen a long dress you’ll barely see them anyway. Now is not the time to treat yourself to $200 shoes; unless your bride has specifically asked for something, hit up the sale racks and try to stick to $75 or less.
Hair. Considering that she’s going to cherish her wedding photos forever, leave your hair to the professionals.Avoid anything too intricate  and pack a little travel-sized hairspray in your purse to do your own touch-ups.
Makeup. While a fresh face is just as important as party-proof hair, it’s easier to achieve on your own. This is a great place to compromise on budget. If your bride is bringing in a makeup person, see if you can order services a la carte. For example, ask for just airbrushed foundation for that dewy, long-lasting look and then do the rest of your makeup yourself. Or go super-glam with false lash application and then do your own base and lips.