Is He Husband Material?

You think you've found the man of your dreams and you've got lifelong commitment on your mind, but is he husband material? Let's take a look at some key factors that should impact your decision to lock him down for life.

Does He Respect You?One of the most important things a man can give you is his respect. If he thinks highly of you, appreciates your point-of-view, and values your opinion, he's a keeper.
 Does He Communicate Well?Good communication is a must for a successful marriage. Do you feel comfortable talking to him about anything? Does he bottle up his feelings, or does he share the innermost parts of himself with you? You should both be 100% open and honest with each other at all times. If you have trouble communicating, that's something you need to work on before you commit.
Does He Get Along with His Family? Does your guy have any issues with his parents or siblings, or do they get along really well? If he becomes your husband someday, you will be attached to his clan for the rest of your life. It's best if he has a good relationship with his family, because that will only make your life easier in the long run!
Does He Get Along with Your Family?While his relationship with his own family is extremely important, it's also important that he gets along with yours. You want to have as little family drama as possible going forward, because it can cause a lot of strain on your marriage.
 Do Your Friends Like Him?Now that both of your families are on your good side, it's time to put him to the ultimate test: your friends. How do they feel about him? Do they like him, or do they think you can do better? Their opinions may be completely off-base, but sometimes your friends can give you a perspective that you might have otherwise missed. If all of your friends think he's shady, you might want to reconsider the relationship.
  Is He Mature?You don't want to be with a guy who is dry, boring, and acts like a cantankerous old man, but you shouldn't commit to a guy who acts like a frat boy, either! Find a good balance between maturity and immaturity. Make sure your guy is mature enough to handle the serious aspects of adulthood, because as much fun as that boyish charm can be, you need a man you can rely on when things get tough.

Does He Treat You Well?When your loved ones talk to you about your relationship, do they ever imply that your boyfriend is mistreating you in some way? Keep an eye out for signs of trouble. Does he ever insult you? Does he ever get physically violent? Is he manipulative? If so, it's time to get out. But if he treats you well, he's got potential!
Is He Selfish?How selfish is your guy? Before you decide he's Mr. Right, make sure he has your best interests at heart -- and not just his own selfish desires. Marriage should be a partnership with a lot of give and take, not a battleground.
 Does He Support You?Finally, does your boyfriend believe in you? Does he support you and encourage you to follow your dreams? If so, he's definitely husband material! Having a someone in your life who is behind you 100% can do a lot for your self-esteem and success. With a husband like that by your side, you'll be in great shape!