Ways to Stay Safe on a First Date

Talk on the Phone First;Although you can gather a lot of info about someone via text and email, there's nothing like hearing a guy's voice and engaging in some back and forth banter to feel him out. Have a decent sense of who he is before agreeing to meet him: At the very least, make sure you have his full name and what he does for a living.

 Meet in a Public Place;If your phone conversations go well, and you feel like you know enough about the guy to go out on a date, be sure to meet in a neutral, public place. (As in, not one of your apartments.) This just adds an additional layer of security.

 Have a Friend On Hand;Consider signing on a girlfriend to back you up in the safety department. First and foremost: Let her know whenever you're going on the date and where you're going. You could also check in with her a few hours into the date to let her know you're a-okay.

Don't Stay if Things Get Weird;Trust your instincts. If you feel early on like something is off, excuse yourself and text a friend to come meet you. If you sense danger, keep your wits about you and safely exit as quickly as possible. If you feel more comfortable having an "out," in case the date goes awry, you can always start off your date on the early side, or tell your date that you need to leave to meet your friends afterward.

 Focus on the Present;The most important way to date safely and smartly is to not get ahead of yourself. Don't get too caught up in fantasizing about the end result of your relationship with a new guy. Just focus on getting to know him as much as you can during the first date. Dating is a lot of fun and it's a great way to meet new people, expand your world, and work on your social skills. However, dating always works best when you're a bit cautious and use good judgement.