How To Surprise Him After All These Years

When the sex begins to dwindle (it will) and the obligations start to pile up (they do), rather than settle, sweetly shock your husband. 

Over time, it's normal to begin to take for granted all the little things your man does to keep the house going, like always mowing the lawn or taking the kids to school. But doing this can make men feel like they're clocking in and out of a second job. Make a "thank you" list and write out everything you're grateful for — or better yet, make a big display of giving him a kiss on the cheek for a job well done. Science proves that being generous, whether with kisses, appreciation, or compliments, makes couples feel "very happy" together, according to a recent study, that generous "thank you" will make him feel like a hero for the day — which is exactly what he craves.

Celebrate him for no reason. Men like to feel like king of the castle, but often consider themselves neglected between the cleaning and cooking. Anytime a man feels like he's needed and respected, it makes him feel good. Gather a few friends and family and cook his favorite dinner; it shows him how important he is to you, that you love him, and that you appreciate what good care he gives to you  and the family.