Things To Talk About With Your Boyfriend

Whether someone is dating for years and is in a serious relationship or has just recently began dating, there are times when you do not have anything to say to each other. If it’s an old relationship, you can actually enjoy the silences shared but if you have been going out for just a couple of days or weeks, silences can be awkward, here are some useful tips on things to talk with your boyfriend.

1.  Men will never admit it but they love it if their girlfriends pamper them, mother them and show their love and concern for them, once in a while. So, besides talking about some fun and romantic stuff, you can ask him things like how his day went, what he had for lunch, how was his sports class or office work, etc. Such loving and indulgent questions that show your concern for him are some of the things to talk with your boyfriend on the phone.
2.  If you are well traveled, share your travel experiences and stories with your boyfriend. If you have some special interests such as reading, dancing, music, have conversations about them with him. If he genuinely likes you, he will pay attention to each and every detail of it and may pitch in the conversation every now and then, even if he has no clue or interest in these things.
3. Men love to get complimented. So, the best topic to have a conversation with a guy is the guy himself. Tell him how good he looks, how handsome he is, how he makes you happy, how intelligent he is, etc. Sound genuine when you compliment him and I am sure he will be all ears and love it!
4. Every one of us has our own likes and dislikes when it comes to food. So, ask your guy what he likes –whether it is chicken or vegetarian stuff. In between the conversation tell him all the foods you are good at cooking. The old adage that a way to a man’s heart is through his stomach, holds true even today. Thus, by having this conversation, you will earn some brownie points as well.
5. Talk about yourself. Tell him about your likes, interests, hobbies, friends, passions, dreams, etc. If he genuinely loves you and thinks of you as a long term partner, he would be all ears and would want to know as much as he can about you.